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The
Law Of Attraction And Personal Development Has Nothing To Do With Change
Many people come into the law of attraction and personal
development realm thinking that they have things to change. That in order to
attract, manifest, and start living the life of their dreams, the life they
truly want to live, that they have to become this whole new person and fix all
sorts of things about themselves. This is not only false, it's completely wrong.
The law of attraction and personal development, living the life of your dreams
for that matter, has very little to nothing to do with change. Sure, there are
things that need to be different, but that is not the same as change. Many
people look at their lives like a car that is broken down. Like they or their
lives need to be fixed in order to work better.
First of all, there is nothing wrong with you as you are. You are already
perfect in terms of living the life you currently live. You are exactly what and
who you need to be in order to live the life you currently live, and you need to
start by realizing that you are already perfect in all aspects for that life.
Second, it's not so much about changing or fixing things as it is about letting
go and accepting. Your life is not like a broken down car that needs an engine
repair, a complete over haul, or new parts in order to work perfectly. What your
life needs is a shift if anything.
So let me explain what I am talking about. I already discussed how people often
times look at their life and their situations as though it needs to be fixed or
changed in order to turn it into something that they want it to be. What I would
like you to understand is that things don't need to be changed, they need to be
used properly.
Many of us already possess all the tools we need in order to live the life we
truly want to live right here and right now. We don't need to change this to
that or fix this in order to have, do, or be that. We must learn to use the
tools we were born with properly in order to start living the life we desire
living.
Most people live their lives trying to hammer in nails with a knife, so to
speak. If we would instead learn to use a knife to cut and a hammer to nail, we
would see drastically different results in our lives. The same is true when it
comes to your natural ability, which each and every one of us was born with.
Instead of trying to change or fix things, work toward learning how to do things
more appropriately with what you already have. Learn to let go and open up and
start accepting things as they naturally are in your life. This doesn't involve
any change, but instead involves pausing or a moment to look around and truly
see.
Start by letting go of your current beliefs and ideas of the world, people,
yourself, life, and the way things are and how they work. This doesn't involve
change, but instead involves letting go. It is your current perception and
mindset that causes you to make specific decisions when in specific situations.
Let go of the need and desire to have things a certain way, and you will be
amazed at how easily and quickly you actually get things to be that specific
way. Open up to your natural gifts and abilities and them guide you toward what
you want. We were all born with the right and the ability to be rich, healthy,
happy, joyful, successful, or whatever else you can think of. Instead of trying
to make those things happen for you, simply open up and let them happen for you.
Wealth, abundance, happiness, joy, success, money, love, and anything else you
can think of are all choices. They are all our birth right and it is our beliefs
and opinions that make things different for us. We must learn to simply let
those things we desire and want to flow through us without getting in it's way
as we so often do and they will be ours for the taking.
The next part is accepting things as they truly are. Most of our problems and
issues come from our inability to accept things as they are, truly are, in the
moment. If we would learn to be ok with things as they are and start moving in
directions by opening up so that those things can be different, we would again
be amazed at what we could do and how well we could do it.
I was watching some people the other day argue about something where one person
was obviously right and the other person was obviously wrong. If they both would
have simply accepted their place in the situation, the entire argument would
have ended in seconds.
It amazes me that someone who is wrong will try to argue in order to be right
and someone who is right will argue to be more right. No matter how much one
argues about their position or place, it doesn't change the reality of the
situation. If one is wrong, no amount of arguing will make them right no matter
how many people's opinions they change. If one is right, they will remain right
no matter how much they argue to prove their point.
Simply accept things as they are, and if you aren't happy with the way things
are, work toward making them be what you wish them to be. Be willing to close
your lips and be ok with being right or wrong no matter how many people see
things differently. Open up, let go of limiting issues and beliefs, and accept
things as they truly are, and the world will open the gates of gold and
prosperity for you.
Dwayne Gilbert is the founder of http://www.wealthylifesecrets.com
and the Wealthy Life Secrets Program. He has been helping people to Unleash
Their Potential for over 10 years. He has helped people from all walks of life
to get on a better path and to create the life of their dreams
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